Sunday, January 16, 2011

Getting Any?

   Chad and I have long thought that sex is an important part of any relationship, but in the newest issue of Real Simple they talked about a couple who had lost interest in their sex life because they became "too tired", rushed, busy, etc because of life and children.  With four kids I get being too tired, but we make it happen. LOL
   Sex isn't just about feeling good, but it's the connection between you and your partner.  Sometimes when you're fighting it's the only connection you do have.  At other times it's the part of your relationship that keeps you young.  Sex is about the intimate glances, the cute underwear you show your husband you're going to wear when you're walking to the shower or the perfume you spray on and have your husband smell.  Of course I'm normal.  I do get tired, I do get headaches and I am not always in the 'mood', but Chad and I try to make time for us too, even if it's just a fun make out session. 
   I think being a mom has made me more in touch with my sexuality.  I have someone who thinks I'm beautiful cellulite, stretchmarks and all.  I want to be sexy because of him.  Being sexy isn't just looking good it's a state of mind.  Just because we're moms who says we can't wear sexy underwear, perfume and lipstick with our jeans and t-shirts?  So ladies, dress sexy under those mom clothes, feel good about your selves and have lots of fun sex with your husbands.  Guaranteed everyone will be happy in your house if you do and possibly a little more stress free.

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